Friday, December 2, 2016

The Family Team



The Home Team: God's Game Plan for the Family by Clint Archer

In my weekly schedule I listen to D6 Family podcasts.  I was listening to an interview with Todd Meadows, How to Equip Parents to Disciple at Home.  Todd said the best book he had read in a while was The Home Team by Clint Archer.  So I immediately went out and downloaded it.  Of course I was thinking this book will have all the answers I can just give to the parents in the church and EQUIP them.  I loved the premise of team sports relating to the family – right up my alley.

First let me say Clint Archer is my kind of author.  He is easy to read and I didn’t want to put the book down.  But I’ll warn you – I felt short of God’s expectations – and I felt convicted.  The hardest parts are the husband/father and the wife/mother chapters.  Our responsibilities as parents is HUGE and time consuming.  I promise when you read the book – you’ll feel wow this is extreme; does the bible really say this?  Could this guy really be interrupting it correctly? And the tendency you’ll have is to say – well its OK I don’t do it that way because ….

The children’s part of the family team – is broken up into two chapters.  Little kids and older kids – or little league and minor league.  I found his parenting advice excellent.  There is a harvest of information and application in these two chapters.  Don’t speed read this section of the book – soak and bathe in it.

He finishes up with ideas about schools, church, and how others affect and help the family.  Food for thought for sure but I found this part of the book less relevant for my family situation. 

I absolutely loved how Clint wove sports into the text I found it interesting and applicable; of course I love sports.  I recommend reading this book.  Challenge yourself not to make excuses where you feel convicted.  You want to be a better parent?  You want to raise Godly children? This book will point you in the right direction.

Friends have asked me Cynthia what’s your secret to parenting 4 children?  Well I haven’t followed this book completely, I haven’t done everything right, I haven’t …… and the list goes on.  What have I done – God has been a priority.  My children grew up with some devotions, night time prayers, going to church, seeing the commitment I’ve made to God. Do we miss church – well yes they all four have played travel sports.  There isn’t a magic pill, or a perfect program to put them in; it requires hard work, love, patience, and lots of prayer.

Looking for a New Year’s Resolution – read the book